How hard it is

A solid discussion of the down side of technology.  Borrowed from Ideassortment  Blogspot  so this is a guest blog, but first a cartoon.

Texting through Thanksgiving Dinner.

Sad but true and what the guest blog addresses.

Guest  blog by

Aparna K.S. who lives in Bangalore
Parenting – How Difficult has it become…
 Parenting has become the toughest role for humans inhabiting the vast surface of this only green planet (?) known to mankind so far. The current era in which every awesome technological inventions stays so for a few minutes, only to be replaced or outdated by a newer, more awesome, technology!
Before the advent of the digital entertainment era, children engaged themselves in benign (I shall pardon you if you read it as ‘dumb’ and if you belong to the technologically marinated species, you will!) activities like sand play (not the sand castle building which has become a more serious profession), drawing, scribbling on the sand, throwing stones in the pond and other water bodies, rolling a waste tyre along the roadside or even kicking stones on the pavement till they reach home walking from your destination.
I am sure for many of us it would bring back some nostalgic moments. To me, it did!With the mushrooming of cable operators and meteoric rise in number of TV channels, all the idyllic pastimes were stolen by the fluorescent dots that adorned the TV screens.These activities were dying a slow death. But mankind decided to give them a quicker funeral than they deserved. In came the internet cafes. They ensured two things to begin with.

First, people could get all information that they needed and that they did not at all need, very rapidly.
Secondly, if your children are not engaged in positive or creative pastimes, then they are engaged otherwise as benign pastimes no longer exist!
The latter, predictably, has put immense pressure on parents. While parents were engaged in the business of money making that marked the very basic of worldly survival, the children were engaged in collecting information that they needed and that they absolutely did not need too!
As a result the gap between the parents and their offspring widened, further and further, with the older generation absolutely unequipped to face the information overload that their children possessed.
Children assumed themselves to be far smarter even in the by gone era. But in those eras they truly were not as smart as they assumed themselves to be and that defined innocence and was, in a way beautiful.
But now the complication seems to arise because parents are under prepared to face the truly smart children with the limited knowledge offered by the archaic technology (or maybe, even the lack of it)  of the bygone era.
The challenge that looms large before every parent of this digital era is, therefore, to curtail the use of the plethora of entertainment avenues and engage their children productively.
Here again, there are two hurdles – parents are unable to match up to the intellectual capacity of the children or, in trying to do so are hopelessly addicted to it themselves!
As always, allowing your children to ahead in their path towards future, while staying firmly grounded to the core values, is the way forward. Maybe when you feel the need to push your child, nudge them gently as the eagle does and be sure to steer them in the right direction.
Again, as always, easier said than done…

my Parenting tip

Encourage free play  as often and whenever you can. The more free play the better. Moreover, join your children in their free play. Free play need not be games, it can be a walk in the woods where the kids can run ahead or lag behind. It can be creating something alone or together and then sharing. It can be time alone without electronic distractions.  .

You and your children will benefit from such times. Both of you will also benefit from learning to create a safe place in your mind. That is what today’s Free Poster Coach is all about.

FREE Poster Coach

Today’s Free poster coach details how to create a safe place.  Safe places combine with the OMM provide a brief get away from stress, a mini-vacation.  Creating and using a safe place is a self-soothing exercise, but also a way a child or parent can use his or her imagination and creativity. Here is how to create a safe place.

How to create a safe place.

Go to the EFTI store to claim free copy of this or any of our other free Poster Coach.  The posters should be printed up in color on card stock and posted where they will remind you what matters or to practice an Emotional fitness skill. 


Today’s Word Press Daily Prompt: Lucky Star asked this: Today is your lucky day. You get three wishes, granted to you by The Daily Post. What are your three wishes and why?

Note the wishes are to be granted by The Daily Post so the usual wishes for peace for all are beyond the scope of Word Press. However, not totally.  So my personal first wish would be to make it to become Freshly Pressed.  But two things keep me in the wings on that one. My struggle with dysgrapia and the fact that I promote a business.

My more possible wish is that Word Press would promote some technology withdrawal time. How about shutting down on the week ends?

Cannot think of a third. Except to wish all fellow bloggers an ever expanding readership.

Finally, Thank you for all you do. I am particularly grateful to those who practice internet kindness by liking, rating, commenting, or sharing my posts.




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