Of course you are, every family; every family has meetings several times everyday. A meeting is any get together involving two people and at least one with an agenda. Putting your three-year old to bed? That is a meeting. When you share the same agenda all goes well. Lucky you. Not always the case. More often, at the end of these little every day meetings one person feels, while two or three people don’t.
That is called life. You cannot please everyone all the time. As was heard in the baseball movie, Bull Durham, “Some days you win, some days you lose and some days it rains.” The trick is to accept bad feelings and stay in the game doing your best. Happens to every family member, every day; happens in most family meetings as well as other everyday meetings also.
The little meetings go lots better if the family meets regularly as a team to handle business and does so successfully. Such meetings reduce parental stress. Moreover, such meetings prepare you and your children for handling life’s other meetings, but most importantly teach many important life lessons, including how to deal with not getting you way as well as strategies for getting your way.
Parenting Advice for conducting successful family meetings
Tip one: Family meetings are a potent and powerful tool for parents, but only if successful and that is not always easily accomplished. Here are the success tips I developed. Many are drawn from the business world. Parents are leaders, managers, CEOs; the successful in that group I dub Power Leaders and I have learned much from them.
Tip two: The best place to start if you have not been holding regular family meetings is to start with some Family Fun Meetings. Here is one idea: have a craft event that re-cycle’s the end of the year greeting cards in one of three ways: Make gift tags for next year by cutting parts of the cards, punching a hole for the tie. Have each family member make a scrap-book page out of some of the cards. Have each family member contribute to a Memory collage that to be or put in a Family Memories Scrap book.
Tip Three: For more tips my How To Hold Successful Family Meetings is now available in print.
If you buy it, please share a review. And yes, there are lots of other resources about family meetings on the web, some free. I think mine combines the best of knowledge from clinical and business gurus, but also in-the-trench parents including the many wonderful parent advocates I worked with. You know who you are. Thank you all.
If you do not hold regular family meetings, make doing so one of your New Years Resolution. Even one family fun event meeting a month, with a bit of business is better than none.
THE USUAL STAYING STRONG HELP
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As I tell myself a thousand times a day, do not weaken, give lots of love to others and to yourself, be grateful, practice kindness, live now, give and seek forgiveness, and always hope the blessing of the forces beyond our control are with you and those you love.
DISCLAIMER: FORGIVE MY GRAMMATICAL ERRORS FOR I HAVE DYSGRAPHIA. If you need perfect posts, you will not find them here. I have dysgraphia which means that sometimes my sentence structure is not that easy to follow or I make other errors. Still, most people understand me. All of my books are professionally edited, but not all of my blog posts are. If this troubles you, feel free to read elsewhere. If you persevere, you are practicing kindness by lifting my spirits for that means you find what I say helpful and that is one of my missions. Kindness always repays those who spread it.